Whoo. CAPL TMR at CINELEISURE. my 2nd competitive dota compy! lalalalalala.



oh, i've been talking alot abt relationships and girl stuffs with my classmates during tutorials. things like, how possessive can a guy be and how protective they can be. i guess its up to every single individual bah. =D hong wei has the same tinking as me anyway. (: oh and i've been tinking abt it. something that has been discussed before.



is breaking up a couple considered a bastard thing?

it depends.

like theres 2 scenario whereby the bf treats the gf nicely and they're blissfully in love. if any guy comes in between this kind of couple will be defined to me as a bastard.



however,

if there is already an existing problem and both parties are not getting anything from the relationship except sadness and hardship, i believe it'd be understandable to go in between them. P.S going in between them doesnt mean saying bad things behind her bf back or smth liddat, i meant going after the girl openly or smth. (:

ooooh. and how to really gauge if a couple will last? discussed abt it too :D
lets say couple A.
they got to know each other totally like absolutely know each other's character in like 1-2months. it'd be no fun isnt it? relationship is about getting to know more of the other party day by day, week by week, month by month. knowing each other too well will mean that theres a high chance that they'd be bored of each other. yea? ^^
on the other hand, couple B
which is the opposite, they will be discovering more and more of their other partner slowly and being kept intrigued and interested in this relationship. for those attached pple out there, have u ever wondered what makes u increasing ur love for each other? its the flame.

to put it short, couple A will have a BIG FIRE yet not lasting fire, and couple B will have a strong, steady growing fire which will be kept going by the love that fuels it everyday.

oh well, my classmates say the same goes for the intimate actions. lets say couple A hold hands in like 1week and french kisses in like 2weeks, dont u tink the "flame" theory applies? ^^

all those above wasnt directed at any particular couple, its juz what i've gossiped with my classmates (: ^^